We think of Love as a mysterious feeling, one that comes and goes without reason. But we're now learning that it makes more sense then we previously thought. There ARE ways to build, strengthen and maintain the bonds of love.
The number one behavior that predicts divorce? Contempt--any expression, tone, or statement that somehow communicates "I'm better than you" or "I don't respect you" to your partner. Communicating your complaints in a more skillful and gentle way is more effective--both in the moment and in the long-term.